How to Flirt With Women in 3 Basic Steps

I have often thought that we are not, as men, given sufficient training for the dating game. In other fields we begin our studies very early - at school even. Take the example of the art of throwing a ball. We begin our training very young, continue with it all through our childhood and emerge as young adults with the technique down pat. Almost all young men can throw a ball well. But approaching women? That's a different story entirely. Let me explain...

The art of seduction is never taught

But it should be. Imagine if you had spent your formative years being trained in the techniques of approaching women. You could have taken lessons on the psychological techniques and mind control tactics. Your professors could have shown you how to conquer your fears. You would have suffered rejection many times - but emerged the other side knowing how to handle it. And you would have graduated with as much confidence with women as you currently have with throwing a ball.

Graduation from The Academy of Magical Lines

But, alas, that Academy doesn't exist. As men, we are expected to learn all these things for ourselves and we are expected to practice out in the real world with no training. Would you send a soldier out into a theatre of war with no training, expecting him to somehow know what to do? Would you send an actor out onto stage without them having read the script, expecting them to know what to say? Of course not, but that's the current state of affairs for men expected to go out and approach women.

So what can be done to beat the fear?

You can beat your fear of the unknown with proper training and insider knowledge. Magicians are not afraid their trick might not work because they know how its done. The same can be said for approaching women. Study the field, learn the tactics used by men, and create a set of lines you can use without fear that they won't work. Then, like the magician, you alone will know how the trick works - these will be your Magical Tactics.

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Hopefully this article has helped explain to you why men find approaching women so difficult. Essentially, it comes down to a lack of training. So make sure that you are no longer one of the uninitiated. Get out there and do some research, learn the techniques, and beat your fear.