How to Improve Your Marriage by Keeping Your Wife Happy

If you read the topic of this article, you surely were wondering what I was going to say here. And the truth is that I really do have an issue with dating. Let me explain why.

What is dating? Dating for me is when 2 people are getting to know each other, they like each other, they go out together, and some people might even say that they are in love. Now, let's take a look at a couple of things that we need to consider when dating someone, or even think about dating.

First, let's see the best case scenario. It is proved by scientists, and by a lot of research on this topic, that marriage is the healthiest way to go with a girl-guy relationship. The reason is that when 2 people are dating, they get involved emotionally with each other, very much. This can be dangerous because if one of the two is having a problem at home, maybe regarding lack of love from their parents, abuse, or anything related to a dysfunctional family, then most likely that person will look for what he/she is lacking, when having a relationship with a person from the opposite sex.

What's the danger here? It's that the other person can't provide any of that. We need to know that when we are having an issue in our family, whether it's abuse, or lack of love from family members or parents, these are things we need to deal with by ourselves, or looking for professionals who can give us advice on where our value is, or why a relationship with a person from the opposite sex will not fix our lives as we think it will, and also to look for help in general. They will know what they are doing, and they will know how to help you.

The next thing to consider is that dating someone, means that you are getting ready for marriage (or at least it's the way it should be). In marriage, there is a sense of commitment, and deciding to be with someone for the rest of your life, instead of going for what you feel at the moment. If you don't feel like loving the other person, you will break up with him/her. But if you decide to love, then no matter what you feel at the moment, you are not going to leave, and you will have a healthy relationship for the rest of your life. Think about it. Emotions always change. On the other hand, if you decide something, no matter what you feel, you are going to keep that promise, because emotions always change. Decisions don't (or at least, they shouldn't).

My conclusion is: if you date someone, in order to get ready for marriage, then it's good. If not, then it's probably not the healthiest thing to do.