How to Keep a Long Distance Love Alive

If you think that keeping a man interested in you is going to be hard work you could not be further away from the truth. No doubt it will require some effort from your end but it is all going to be worth the reward. Here are the things that you need to do in order to keep him interested in you.

Don't look like his mother
He fell for a sexy siren that, when he woke up one day, began looking like his mother. No we are not talking about a Freudian dream but the way you have started looking from the time you became steady. Quit the grandma clothes and get back into the sexy avatar.

Cut out on the dependence
Calling him a thousand times in a day and making plans only with him is going to bore him after a point. You have to show him that there is more to your life even if you have a man in it. He cannot be the focal point of your universe. Too much importance from you is going to bore him.

Enjoy some time away from each other
Take some timeout and go away for a short holiday somewhere - alone. Sometimes keeping the interest alive is possible by making the other person miss you. So pack up and go on the literary tour that you wanted to go to but didn't because you thought he would get bored.

Stay away from his space
You might have thought that being a couple was like being Siamese twins. You could not be more wrong. Thinking that accompanying him everywhere, even to places you don't feel all that welcome, is a very bad idea. Also learn to trust him and stay away from him e-mails, phone and private mails.

Be adventurous in the bedroom
If you really want to keep him hooked to you, you have to be more adventurous in bed than you presently are. Take the sexual experience to the next level and indulge his secret fantasies. He will be your slave for life.

Do new stuff together
The regular dinner and movie routine becomes boring after a point. Gear up and get the relationship moving by doing something new. It could be going off on a trek or taking up a group activity together as long as you both enjoy it. This will make sure he stays interested in you as you will not let the relationship get boring.

Conversation has to be interesting
Work on your conversation skills. Upgrade your intellect so that you can stimulate him mentally and keep him hooked to you.